Next time things are heating up between you and your partner, take the opportunity to climb aboard and get on top. Not only can it be a lot more playful than your usual go-to position, but cowgirl-style sex offers distinct advantages.

“You get a visceral and symbolic sense of control when you’re not underneath the man,” says Boston-based sex therapist Aline Zoldbrod, PhD, of SexSmart.com. Plus, if you have trouble reaching orgasm, being on top lets you control the speed and depth, she adds, so the action is more to your liking. And you can do it all without ordering him to go harder, faster, or slower, like you may find yourself doing when he's at the helm.

While your partner sits comfortably cross-legged, lower yourself onto his penis in a sitting position, facing forward. Wrap your legs around his torso for balance, and hold each other at the shoulders or lower backs. Grind yourself slowly against him, swaying back and forth while looking into each other's eyes. This is a super close upgrade that maximizes body and eye contact. And with him supporting your body weight, you can focus solely on all the pleasure you're feeling. healthgreb.blogspot.com

In case you're in the disposition for firm activity, this current one's for you. Lower yourself onto your accomplice's penis in a squat position, so your feet are level on the quaint little inn can utilize your lower-body muscles to control your pushes. You will most likely be unable to manage this situation for long, contingent upon how solid your legs are. Be that as it may, you'll have the capacity to get his penis somewhere inside you for most extreme delight, and he can undoubtedly reach up and stroke your clitoris or bosoms.

You're on top of him in this one, but instead of facing forward, turn around to face his feet, extending your legs outside his. The benefit for him: a very sexy view of your hips and butt as you take charge of the bumping and grinding. Reverse cowgirl hits all your buttons too your partner can easily touch your clitoris or play with your nipples for extra stimulation. And if you arch your back, his penis can rub against your G-spot.

Usually during reverse cowgirl, your partner keeps his legs close together, while you have yours outside his, maximizing your control. This twist has him widening his legs while you keep yours tight inside his. With your legs close together, he'll feel snug inside your vagina, and that creates more intense and pleasurable friction. And since you'll have less control over the pace and thrusting, he gets to take over and steer the action until you decide you want the reins again.